Wednesday, September 25, 2013


"You're so worried 'bout the maiden.
I don't care for your fairytales.
So long my luckless romance, goodbye my hopeless dream.
I don't want the next best thing.
Big love with no apology,
Tomorrow belongs to me."






Song lyrics from: "Fairytale" by Sara Barielles, "Almost Lover" by A Fine Frenzy, "Big, Blonde, and Beautiful" from Hairspray, and "Tomorrow Belongs to Me" from Cabaret.

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

"I'm a damsel. I'm in distress. I can handle this."

There are a few Disney girls who do attempt to dispel the damsel in distress stereotype, especially in more recent movies. One such girl who comes from a little further back is Meg from Hercules. When we meet Meg, she's got moxie. She doesn't need a man and doesn't want help. I always loved Meg because of this first impression. She had attitude and sarcasm. She was real, not some sickly sweet version of man's idea of what women should be. But even a girl as kick-ass as Meg ends up needing rescuing by, of course, a big strong man. In the end, she's shown as weak. She would have died if Hercules hadn't played the hero and literally dived into death to save her. She's also shown as weak in a different way, earlier in the movie. In fact, she's shown as having the stereotypical female weakness- emotions. She gives up her freedom for a guy she loves, who then leaves her for someone else, and that's what turned her into the jaded girl we meet and love at the beginning. Then, when she falls for Hercules, she becomes a little less sarcastic. She loses some of her sass. But it's not shown as a negative thing. Instead, falling in love with Hercules seems to make her softer, kinder, and in some ways, happier.

My question is: Why does she have to lose her strength and moxie to be in love? Wouldn't it have been a better story if she hadn't changed so much?


Sources:
Disney's Hercules

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

A Cautionary Tale, Not a Fairy Tale

Like many girls, I grew up hearing a lot of fairy tales and watching a lot of Disney princess movies. I was taught to want the charming prince and the fairy tale romance. And like many girls, I still love my Disney and still want those things. However, I also see the ways in which fairy tales, wonderful as they seem, are a form of oppression for women. They encourage dependence on a man and perpetuate stereotypes about how a woman should be. Somehow, many girls and women seem not to notice these things, or perhaps they're willfully ignoring them because they don't want to lose the sweetness these stories held when they were children. My purpose in this blog is to shine a light on the undertones in fairy tales in an attempt to make them harder to ignore. This blog is a cautionary tale, not a fairy tale.